Nick and I were married on 21/1/2012 in my hometown of Dumfries. After the speeches Ross came over to Nick and I hugged us both and said 'well Nick, I had been given the impression you are a nervous sort of guy, but I will never believe a word anyone says about you again, your speech was one of the best I have ever heard. He told us how much he was enjoying himself and how all the personal touches where lovely.We were both so touched and then he said something that will say with me forever. He said never leave this earth without having a small person come into your life and told us how much he loved his children. Last year we were blessed with the safe arrival of Isobel. Ross met her once and said he loved her name as he liked old fashioned names. At his funeral his brother Alan said Ross thought it was nice to be nice and this is something I will make sure Isobel learns in memory of my lovely cousin-in-law x